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A Spell to Love Yourself

You will need:

  • a mirror, other than a compact
  • 2 candles, of any color
Pink is a good color choice, as it brings friendship and romance. In a place that is comfortable for sitting a while, and candle-friendly, place the mirror with a candle on each side. Light the candles, remove or dim any artificial light. Now, sit down in front of the mirror, and gaze into your reflection. Sit comfortable, and relaxed. Notice all your good qualities, and focus on them. Say aloud how wonderful each feature is. Notice their shape, and color, and speak of them aloud. Do this with all your best features. Smile at yourself. Tell yourself how wonderful you are. State all the positive aspects of your personality, name all the beautiful traits, things that make you special. Speak of them aloud, and with confidence. With practice, and by repeating the ritual, this will become easier to do, and your self-confidence will improve. Say these words, or whatever suits you:

"I am beautiful outside,
I am wonderful within.
I am special unto myself,
so let the love come in.
Negative thoughts, they vanish,
I now toss them out.
Negative feelings, be banished,
To let my love shine out."

Repeat this, at least five times per sitting. Perform the ritual as often as possible, once a day is preferred. You may reuse the candles, but do not blow them out. This is an insult to the Air and Fire elements. Use a snuffer, or wet your fingers and pinch them out. Spells are more effective when made personal, so change the chant to suit you as often as you like. You can also make an attraction charm to wear. Simply find a chain with a pendant that suits you, and drape it over your mirror while doing your spell. The charm gains strength, as you continue to work the spell. In time, you will see a noticeable difference in the number of people who approach you, attracted to your confidence.

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